Young Humanist SG Meeting #4: Setting up a resource centre

We held a lunch networking session today to discuss the Humanist Society’s plans of setting up a resource centre. The resource centre aims to provide support for non-religious people in distress. We opened the meeting to people from all ages and all walks of life. About 20 people attended the discussions, held at Safra Toa Payoh.

In February, the Humanist Society placed an advertised Facebook post calling for resource centre suggestions. Many of those who responded wanted the centre to provide support in the form of counselling, meditation, temporary shelters and conflict resolution. They were also looking for a space to provide learning opportunities, such as establishing a small library with a dedicated list of books, holding workshops / classes and providing free tuition for low-income families. Others even suggested holding celebrant services, other interest group activities, and sharing a physical place with other NGOs,

Following the Facebook post, the Humanist Society held internal discussions with educators, psychologists and social workers within our network. We concluded that the Society should not replicate existing professional services. We should instead complement professional services by providing informal support in the form of first responders. Some have pointed to existing practices in religious institutions and NGOs. For example, a trained professional can provide basic training to first responders who could then escalate a serious case to professional help when needed. This is an existing model the Society can take up. These first responders do not provide solutions. They only act as a listening ear.

At today’s discussion, the 20 participants broke up into 3 separate discussion groups to discuss the next steps. The first group proposed that the resource centre could start with a tighter list of items, instead of trying to fulfill all requests gathered from the Facebook post at once. It can start with establishing a small team of first-responders and provide a listening ear to anyone who feels troubled.

The first group felt that great care must be taken to explain the resource centre’s purpose, striking a balance between being specific (and searchable in Google) and what is acceptable to the general public. It should not be discreet because we are not doing anything illegal. At the same time, it cannot be antagonistic because it could attract the wrong type of volunteers and draw public backlash in a conservative country. There was also some debate about whether to keep the resource centre religion-neutral, or whether the Humanist Society — as a civil society and not a public service — should stay true to its original purpose and focus on helping the non-religious. One way to frame the resource centre, the first group concluded, was to describe it as a place for people “exploring non-religious alternatives to meaning in life.”

The second group discussed methods to seek funding. Establishing a resource centre would require some money and a good fundraiser is needed to drive the Society’s fundraising efforts. Once the funds are secured, the Society could look at temporary places to stay, such as hostels and backpacker hostels. The second group said it is important to present ourselves as a diverse community with different beliefs.

The third group noted that the Humanist Society currently lacks the expertise to provide such support. It suggested that in the meantime, it can rely on support in online forums. Although such forums already exist, they are very scattered and perhaps one dedicated forum could be set up to address people seeking psychological and social support. The third group also said that information for people seeking help should be made easily available online.

The first group also argued that online counselling could form the bulk of support efforts. A physical face-to-face meetup can be held, “friendship bench” style (see more above), at a central location such as the Hanis Cafe at NLB in town. After the initial contact has been made, the first responder can follow up with a mixture of online and physical engagement. Such an arrangement can ease the workload of first-responders who are unpaid volunteers with day jobs.

At the end of our discussion, a total of 10 people signed up to be first responders for our resource centre. We will be continuing more discussions in the months ahead, refining our purpose and generating more action items. If you have any suggestions for us, please contact us at info@humanist.org.sg

Humanists at CRIX Interfaith dialogue

Photo above: Two of our representatives (far left) at the ‘Roadmap for Interfaith Action’ interfaith dialogue’ organized by Critical Xchange (CRIX) last week. Photo by CRIX.

On Feb 12, 2017, the Humanist Society (Singapore) sent two representatives (far left) to a dialogue called ‘Roadmap to Interfaith Action’, organised by Critical Xchange (CRIX). The dialogue engaged faith leaders from various faith organisations and communities in Singapore and selected youth faith leaders. [Read more…]

Our Darwin Day 2017: In the Footsteps of Wallace

The Wallace Trail at Bukit Timah is named in honour of Alfred Russel Wallace, the British naturalist who independently conceived the theory of evolution through natural selection. He visited Singapore many times from 1854 – 1862 as part of his eight-year stay in the Malay archipelago. To get closer to the remaining primary forests, Wallace stayed with a French Roman Catholic missionary at St Joseph’s in Bukit Timah district. During his time in Singapore, Wallace trekked daily into the hilltops and collected thousands of insects and birds.

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HumanistSG Interfaith Work in NUS

The Humanist Society (Singapore) has taken part in dialogues organised by the National University of Singapore Interfaith student group. As of 2017, the Society has participated in three dialogues (2012, 2013 and 2017).

NUS Interfaith was founded in 2005 as a group of individuals from various religious and non-religious backgrounds. It aims to foster deeper understanding and appreciation through interfaith activities. Alongside the government-led Explorations into Faith (EiF) programme, NUS Interfaith was one of the first interfaith groups in Singapore to recognise the lack of non-religious representatives in the interfaith sphere.

NUS Interfaith first approached the Humanist Society in October 2011 while searching for non-religious voices into the ‘Faith First: Introduction to Religion” Dialogue Series. The series was part of an effort to promote awareness regarding diverse culture and belief systems to the NUS student population. NUS interfaith leaders Gwyneth and Wai Kit felt that the inter-faith scene lacks the humanist perspective.

The dialogue was eventually held on March 5, 2012, at Seminar Room 1 at Cinnamon College South Learn Lobe, within the NUS’ new University Town. Humanist Society representatives also met with students from the Facebook group “NUS students for Freethought” for dinner at the Koufu foodcourt.

Photos below: Our first interfaith dialogue in NUS

Then-President Paul Tobin gave a presentation, introducing our Society and the basics of humanism. Paul was supported by key members of the Society, including future President Mark Kwan and treasurer Eugene Tay. During the dialogue, we received many questions from the audience.

Photos below: Slides from Paul’s presentation

The following year, NUS Interfaith president Nur Nasuha invited the Humanist Society for a second presentation, also under the “Faith First: Introduction to Religion” Dialogue Series. NUS Interfaith believed that many students, both of religious or non-religious backgrounds, still do not know enough about secular humanism . The talk was held on March 18, 2013, at Library Thearette 1, NUS Central Library. The dialogue consisted of a 45-50 minute talk followed by a 30-35 minute QnA session:

Although the Humanist Society did not hold any interfaith dialogues in NUS from 2014-2016, interfaith efforts on other fronts increased. For example, we gave introductory lectures about humanism to EiF facilitators on 14 Sept 2014, and Aug 28, 2016. We also joined UnConference interfaith dialogues at NYGH. We also collaborated with a student group from Nanyang Technological University, called PATHS, which was working on a campaign on promoting interfaith dialogue among youth. 

Through the efforts of humanist students at NUS Interfaith, the Humanist Society was invited to the third dialogue at NUS Yusof Ishak House, on February 8, 2017. The dialogue was well-organised and moderated by a faculty member, Dr. John van Wyhe. Our Society’s representative, Huifen, introduced the Humanist Society and engaged in a dialogue with interfaith activist Mohamed Imran Mohamed Taib.

The 2017 dialogue

During the opening presentations, NUS student Ashley Toh (above), shared her experience as a former Christian and how the humanist community provided a support during her transition out of religion, which she described as the feeling that her world was “crumbling away”. She also responded to questions about a Tembusu College atheist film screening she co-organised with a Christian schoolmate last year.

Interfaith activist Mohamed Imran Mohamed Taib argued that both the religious and the non-religious are not monolithic groups and there is a need to appreciate the diversity within them. He shared briefly about his journey from a fundamentalist to a Muslim humanist, the false dichotomy between religion and reason, and how religious humanism (Christian and Islamic humanism) has contributed to the modern world today.

The QnA session was conducted in a very hi-tech manner. Audience members logged into a website and wrote questions which were featured on the screen. The moderator, Dr John van Wyhe, will then pick the questions to be asked. More than 20 questions were posted.

Dr John van Wyhe moderated the one-hour QnA session. Some of the opening questions include: 1) Why are non-believers considered more threatening than other religious believers? 2) The challenge that de facto “blasphemy” laws pose to the humanist movement.

On 1) Imran said that humanity always had a religion and it takes time for multiple layers of diversity to get accepted. Atheism is still quite new to the public eye and that is why people are still uncomfortable with it. Huifen, however, said that atheism has a very ancient past, with many philosophers even predating Christianity.

On 2) Huifen said that some of these laws could hurt the interfaith movement because people are not able to share thoughts candidly with each other. She felt it was better to let some disagreements be aired in public and resolved.

Imran (left) noted that even in free countries there are existing hate speech laws. However, he felt that laws based on religious offence can be problematic and used arbitrarily. There is also the danger of “hate spin” as mentioned by Cherian George, where groups of people deliberately take offence at perceived offences to mobilise public support for certain agendas.

The question on “the ideal state that humanists are trying to achieve” sparked a discussion over the limits of proselytisation. Ashley wanted a society where proselytisers respect boundaries, instead of aggressively trying to convert others all the time. Helping to clarify her thoughts, Dr van Wyhe described it as a society where humanists and secular people are recognised as equals, instead of being an “unoccupied square on the chess board.”

In response, Imran said that the right to proselytise is allowed under the Singapore Constitution, and to tell others that proselytisation is not allowed will be hard. In response, Huifen asked if that meant non-religious people have the right to speak their mind on religious matters too. Imran believes that non-religious people do have that right, pointing to the presence of books by Dawkins and Hitchens in bookstores.

Photos below: Imran (left) is a practising Muslim but he has spoken up regularly about the need to engage the non-religious in interfaith dialogue.

Many tougher questions followed from the audience. Some questions include 1) Any negative reactions towards Imran on identifying himself as a Muslim humanist 2) the point of interfaith dialogue, given the fact that some religions will always put down other religions, 3) On how humanists deal with suffering.

Imran said there is diversity within Islam and the moment one claims that there is only one Islam, the person is moving towards fundamentalism. On religions putting down others, Imran said that such teachings do exist but there are others who disagree with them. Religion is also always evolving, he added. On interfaith dialogues, Huifen said they are important because it gets people to meet and see each other. On the question of dealing with suffering, Huifen says she draws some insights from Buddhism, on how being more detached, objective and stoic can help you cope with the ups and downs of life.

 

Superhero no more

Alvin Phua joined the Jehovah Witness (JW) denomination as a child. Many years after, he left the faith and eventually became an atheist. He also started a bar called the Public House and it became a popular gathering place for the local sceptic and humanist movement. In 2013, Alvin spoke about his experience at a Humanist Society event. Here is his story:

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Young Humanists SG meeting #3: Providing pastoral care

Feb 18, 2017

After Darwin Day, Young Humanist SG organised another meeting to discuss about the need to develop pastoral care services for students on school campuses. The main points discussed:

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Organising Humanism: Engaging people at events

At least 70% of human communication takes place in the non-verbal form, and face-to-face. An organisation that is well-presented online still needs to ensure that participants have a good experience at their events.

At Humanist Society events, Exco members should make an effort to touch base with newcomers.  Excos should introduce themselves and the Society with confidence.

Some ways to start a conversation with a Humanist newcomer: 

  1. If the newcomer is alone, greet the person confidently and shake his/her hand (proper grip is important).
  2. Introduce your name and ask about the newcomer’s name.
  3. Ask if his/her first time here, and how did he/she find out about the Society (this helps you get a sense of where your message is going).
  4. Ask “what do you do?” instead of “where do you study or work”.
  5. If the person is within a group, gradually slide into the group. Smile and listen.
  6. Listen to the conversation and carefully find an opportunity to add a point. Do not interrupt the conversation forcefully.
  7. Whenever you have opportunities, as an exco, give a quick overview of the Society to the newcomer. Perhaps 5-10 lines. Introduce the main figures running the Society.
  8. Do not let the person enter and leave the HSS without seeing the big picture and knowing the main folks in charge. The newcomer could be meeting people who are not representative of the Society and getting a wrong impression.

Humans of HumanistSG

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Who is behind the Humanist Society? What kind of people are they?  What are their respective roles in keeping the humanist movement alive? Our executive committee members share some of their thoughts here!

If you are inspired to contribute to the HumanistSG like we did, you can easily do so! Membership is free for students and retirees gets 50% discount! Join us today!

If you are already a member, you should nominate an existing member for office before the Annual General Meeting, which happens every year around March.

 

 

The Assistant Secretary and handyman

Chee Hoew here. I’m Assistant Secretary at HumanistSG, and also the resident handyman.

Let me explain. Despite being among the older members, I’m actually fairly young within the Society. The passion and commitment of the active members moved me to step up to an Exco position. As the new guy, I go where I’m needed. [Read more…]

The graduate and the mascot

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Hi I’m Pearl and I’m a committee member of the HumanistSG. I am a Global Studies graduate from NUS. I joined the HumanistSG Exco because I believe in the importance of harmony in our multicultural society. To achieve this harmony, it’s crucial to achieve better understanding between people of different cultures and communities. That’s why it’s important for the non-religious/ humanist/ atheist people in Singapore to have a voice in HumanistSG. [Read more…]