Secular Assembly [ 22nd March 2025 ]  

Celebrating International Women’s Day- A Humanist Reflection

The Secular Assembly has always embraced discussions on meaningful, worldly themes. This month, in celebration of International Women’s Day, we were honored to welcome a visiting speaker and guests from AWARE (Association of Women for Action and Research) to engage in dialogue on gender equality, human rights, and social progress.

A Song of Strength and Solidarity

The assembly opened with a sing-along of Helen Reddy’s iconic anthem, I Am Woman, a song that has long been a rallying cry for women’s empowerment:

“I am woman, hear me roar… Whoa, yes, I am wise,

But it’s wisdom born of pain. …

If I have to, I can do anything,

I am strong,

I am invincible,

I am woman.”

The lyrics resonated deeply with the audience, setting the tone for the event—one of reflection, solidarity, and action. It was a fitting reminder of the resilience and determination that have fueled both the feminist and humanist movements throughout history.

Humanism and Gender Equality

Following this uplifting start, Nora, President of the Humanist Society of Singapore (HSS), introduced the audience to the principles of humanism, emphasizing its core belief in rational thought, compassion, and individual freedom. Dan, the event’s lead organizer, then highlighted a significant statistic: according to the Singapore Census 2020, nearly 20% of Singapore residents identified as having no religious affiliation. In a society as diverse as Singapore, he stressed, harmony and mutual respect must never be taken for granted.

A Personal Journey: Breaking Stereotypes

The keynote speaker, Shamima, opened her talk by sharing her personal journey—one that led her away from the traditional expectations of women in her community. Growing up in a Muslim family, she had been expected to follow a conventional path, but her search for meaning and self-determination led her toward humanism. She eventually became a member of HSS and even served as Vice President for one term. 

Her personal experiences also reinforced a critical lesson: simplifying identities through labels and stereotypes is both dangerous and dehumanizing. A society that confines women to a single narrative fails to see the richness of human experience.

The AWARE Saga: A Defining Moment

Shamima then turned the discussion to a pivotal event in Singapore’s feminist history—the 2009 AWARE Saga, a dramatic power struggle within AWARE that captured the nation’s attention and led to significant public discourse on women’s rights, religious influence in civil society, and democratic values.

Though Shamima had not personally attended the Extraordinary General Meeting (EGM) that saw thousands rally to reclaim AWARE’s mission, her years working with the organization put her in close contact with the “old guards”—the women who fought through the crisis. One such figure was Constance Singam, an AWARE veteran of 24 years and a six-term president, whose powerful speech at the EGM remains an enduring testament to activism and resilience. It is a timely reminder to us all, that change happens because people decide to make a difference, not because they wait for the world to change around them.

The impact of the AWARE Saga extended beyond the feminist movement. Dan, a founding member of HSS, noted that the reflections and social awakening it inspired also contributed to the birth of the Humanist Society—which later became Singapore’s first recognized humanist organization.

Shared Values, Common Purpose

As stated at the start of the assembly, humanism affirms that individuals have the right and responsibility to shape their own lives. This philosophy mirrors AWARE’s core principles:

• Embrace diversity

• Respect for individual choices

• Recognition of universal human rights, regardless of gender

The fact that AWARE Saga is still studied in some junior colleges and high schools in Singapore is a testament to its enduring social and educational relevance. As we revisited this chapter in history, we were reminded of the words from I Am Woman:

“It’s wisdom born of pain.”

Engaging the Next Generation

During the Q&A session, participants explored questions on how to engage younger women in the feminist movement and how to encourage more involvement in HSS and AWARE. Those interested were encouraged to sign up through the official websites or reach out to the relevant organizers via email.

A Celebration of Life and Diversity

Before closing, Dan orchestrated a lighthearted moment by identifying the “birthday celebrant of the month” among the audience. With a surprise cake and warm wishes, we celebrated not just an individual milestone, but the shared journey of humanist and feminist activism.

Life, in all its diversity, is always a journey worth celebrating.

Stay tuned for our next assembly!

Write up by Humanist OQ

Secular Assembly : Celebrating Charles Darwin.

Our second Secular Assembly of the year was held on 22 February 2025. Featuring an intriguing talk that dispelled common myths about reactions to the theory of evolution, the Assembly once again invited attendees to connect, learn and reflect.

The Assembly began with a tour of the Harmony in Diversity Gallery. This gallery celebrates Singapore’s multi-cultural society and depicts the importance of getting along with others of different creeds.

Indeed, while differences of belief are part of a healthy society, they can also lead to ridicule and conflict. For example, it’s easy to assume that Charles Darwin’s ground-breaking theory of evolution was met with an angry backlash from everyone in his time.

This brings us to our guest speaker Dr John van Wyhe, a historian of science at NUS who has also spoken at our past Darwin Day events. Through an engaging presentation on his research into historical caricatures of Darwin and evolution, Dr van Wyhe showed that many contemporary reactions to Darwin’s ideas were in fact more light-hearted and less dismissive than one might have assumed.

Dr van Whye’s insights gave attendees an appreciation of religious contexts and historical shifts regarding reactions to the theory of evolution, and sparked a lively Q & A session. Other highlights of the Assembly included a rousing rendition of “That’s What Friends Are For” by Dionne Warwick, led by our intrepid president Nora. The event closed with a gratitude exercise, a welcome pause to reflect on interconnectedness and aspects of our lives for which we felt thankful.

See you at the next Assembly where we will continue to enjoy food for thought and build the humanist community!

Complete work of Charles Darwin online

Secular Assembly – Jan 2025

On 25-Jan-2025, our Secular Assembly offered an inspiring mix of creativity, personal growth, and collective sharing. The event kicked off on a high note as everyone united in singing “Firework” by Katy Perry, setting an upbeat and celebratory atmosphere right from the start.

Our highlight speaker, Bertram, then took the stage to share his journey as a coach. With enthusiasm and authenticity, he detailed the evolution of his career and introduced his innovative AI Ikigai webapp—a tool designed to help individuals uncover their life’s purpose. The interactive demo invited the audience to try the app firsthand, sparking engaging discussions about the blend of technology and personal development.

The session continued with heartfelt personal stories from our community. Koi Hin recounted his experiences from a personal retreat, sharing valuable insights on balancing mind, body, and spirit. His reflections resonated deeply with many, encouraging us all to embrace holistic well-being. Adding another layer to the tapestry of experiences, Lionel also shared his personal journey. His story, rich with challenges overcome and transformative insights gained, provided a unique perspective that underscored the power of resilience and self-discovery.

Overall, the Secular Assembly was a celebration of individual narratives woven together by a shared commitment to growth and community support. The day reminded us that every personal story enriches our collective journey, inspiring us to keep exploring new paths towards a more fulfilled and balanced life.

Secular Assembly – Dec 2024

Our last event of the month was the lively Secular Assembly held at HDG on 28 Dec 2024, complete with an optional 45-minute excursion through the HDG gallery. For those who arrived early or simply wanted to explore, the gallery tour offered a fascinating look at the venue’s history, exhibits, and art pieces that beautifully complemented the spirit of our gathering.

Year-in-Review Reflection
After the gallery excursion, our co-founder and Secular Assembly Programme Director, Dan Thio, led a guided reflection session on three key areas: health, relationships, and meaningful work or passions. Through a series of thoughtful prompts, participants took a moment to identify their personal achievements, challenges, and the valuable lessons they learned over the course of the year. This introspective exercise allowed everyone to connect more deeply with themselves and to consider how they might carry these insights into the new year.

Sing-Along Session
Rounding out the evening was a sing-along led by our enthusiastic member, Lava. We sang two tunes that captured both the festive mood and the sense of togetherness at this time of year:

• Christmas Is a Time to Say I Love You

• Auld Lang Syne

Voices rose in unison, bringing a heartwarming close to our December events. Whether you joined for the gallery tour, the reflection, or simply for the good company, we appreciate everyone who made this final Secular Assembly a memorable one! We look forward to welcoming you at future gatherings as we continue to foster community, personal growth, and humanist values.