Humanist Café : Do you feel you’ve made the most of your life ?

At our latest Humanist Café, we delved into some of life’s biggest questions: Have you truly lived or merely existed? Do you feel you’ve made the most of your life? These thought-provoking questions sparked deep and meaningful conversations among a diverse group of participants, with a balanced mix of younger and senior voices bringing unique perspectives to the discussion.

As the conversation unfolded, two key themes emerged:

A Sense of Belonging – Many shared that their most meaningful moments in life were shaped by the relationships they built, the communities they became part of, and the sense of connection they felt with others. Whether through friendships, family, or shared experiences, finding belonging played a crucial role in making life feel fulfilling.

The Purpose of Life – The discussion naturally led to reflections on what gives life meaning. For some, it was about pursuing passions and personal growth. For others, it was about making a difference in the lives of others or embracing new experiences with curiosity and courage.

One of the most powerful moments of the evening was when participants were asked: “Share one moment from your life when you felt truly alive.” Many spoke about experiencing the beauty of nature—whether it was standing before a breathtaking sunset, hiking in the mountains, or simply watching the waves crash onto the shore. These moments, filled with awe and wonder, reminded us of how deeply intertwined we are with the world around us.

The Humanist Café once again proved to be a space for open dialogue, reflection, and meaningful exchanges. It left us all with one important takeaway: Life is not just about existing—it’s about finding joy, purpose, and connection in the journey.

We look forward to more conversations that challenge, inspire, and bring us together.

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Humanist Cafe Dec 2024 – Navigating relationships across different beliefs and faiths

Our final Humanist Cafe of 2024 focused on a theme that resonates with many of us: how to nurture and sustain relationships when beliefs and faiths differ. It was a warm, enlightening session where participants openly shared their personal stories and insights.

One participant, for instance, spoke candidly about her experience marrying into a different cultural and religious background—a journey that began with “culture shock” due to various traditional beliefs and superstitions she wasn’t familiar with. When asked, “Why did you decide to marry this person?” her response highlighted the importance of character over creed:

“He was humble and genuinely caring toward others. That was what caught my attention.”

Their relationship blossomed from a simple friendship into love, and eventually led to marriage. Now, more than 25 years later, she has learned to adapt and accommodate her partner’s cultural practices and religious customs. She attributes her flexibility and open-mindedness to humanist values, which encourage empathy, respect, and an acceptance of diversity.

This moving story underlined our discussion about the importance of focusing on shared humanity rather than differences in beliefs. By embracing humanist ideals, we can broaden our perspectives, build deeper connections, and find harmony in even the most diverse environments.