Archives for December 2024

Secular Assembly – Dec 2024

28 December 2024 by

Our last event of the month was the lively Secular Assembly held at HDG on 28 Dec 2024, complete with an optional 45-minute excursion through the HDG gallery. For those who arrived early or simply wanted to explore, the gallery tour offered a fascinating look at the venue’s history, exhibits, and art pieces that beautifully complemented the spirit of our gathering.

Year-in-Review Reflection
After the gallery excursion, our co-founder and Secular Assembly Programme Director, Dan Thio, led a guided reflection session on three key areas: health, relationships, and meaningful work or passions. Through a series of thoughtful prompts, participants took a moment to identify their personal achievements, challenges, and the valuable lessons they learned over the course of the year. This introspective exercise allowed everyone to connect more deeply with themselves and to consider how they might carry these insights into the new year.

Sing-Along Session
Rounding out the evening was a sing-along led by our enthusiastic member, Lava. We sang two tunes that captured both the festive mood and the sense of togetherness at this time of year:

• Christmas Is a Time to Say I Love You

• Auld Lang Syne

Voices rose in unison, bringing a heartwarming close to our December events. Whether you joined for the gallery tour, the reflection, or simply for the good company, we appreciate everyone who made this final Secular Assembly a memorable one! We look forward to welcoming you at future gatherings as we continue to foster community, personal growth, and humanist values.

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A Celebration of Life – Nov/Dec 2024

23 December 2024 by

29 Nov 2024

We hosted our very first Celebration of Life gathering, a heartfelt event dedicated to embracing life’s precious moments. This was a time to celebrate milestones, honor the inspiring legacies of others, and revel in the sheer joy of being alive. Together, we celebrated the birthdays of Yew Hwee Hong, Ashwini, and Lava, creating a vibrant atmosphere filled with gratitude and camaraderie. The gathering was a meaningful pause to reflect on life’s beauty and the connections that make it so special. Here’s to many more such moments of shared happiness!

22 Dec 2024

To close out the year on a joyful note, we held our final Celebration of Life meetup, honoring the moments that make life extraordinary—birthdays, the memory of inspiring individuals, or simply the everyday joy of being alive. This time, it was a Mookata Night at Phuket Town Mookata in Ang Mo Kio on 22 Dec 2024, and it couldn’t have been more fun!

Great Food and Great Company
We indulged in a sizzling spread of delicious and reasonably priced Mookata, sharing laughs, stories, and the warmth of a close-knit community. New friends and familiar faces came together around the table, making it a truly memorable evening.

A Special Birthday Celebration
Amid the clinking of cutlery and lively banter, we also had the pleasure of celebrating NeoSree’s birthday, complete with a birthday cake. Everyone joined in with well-wishes, turning the night into a heartwarming blend of celebration and camaraderie.

It was the perfect way to wrap up the year, reflecting on life’s precious moments and cherishing them together. Here’s to many more meetups filled with shared meals, laughter, and collective gratitude for life’s gifts! 

And if you find yourself with no one to celebrate your birthday or achievements, don’t worry—reach out to us, and we’ll celebrate with you!

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Humanist Cafe Dec 2024 – Navigating relationships across different beliefs and faiths

14 December 2024 by

Our final Humanist Cafe of 2024 focused on a theme that resonates with many of us: how to nurture and sustain relationships when beliefs and faiths differ. It was a warm, enlightening session where participants openly shared their personal stories and insights.

One participant, for instance, spoke candidly about her experience marrying into a different cultural and religious background—a journey that began with “culture shock” due to various traditional beliefs and superstitions she wasn’t familiar with. When asked, “Why did you decide to marry this person?” her response highlighted the importance of character over creed:

“He was humble and genuinely caring toward others. That was what caught my attention.”

Their relationship blossomed from a simple friendship into love, and eventually led to marriage. Now, more than 25 years later, she has learned to adapt and accommodate her partner’s cultural practices and religious customs. She attributes her flexibility and open-mindedness to humanist values, which encourage empathy, respect, and an acceptance of diversity.

This moving story underlined our discussion about the importance of focusing on shared humanity rather than differences in beliefs. By embracing humanist ideals, we can broaden our perspectives, build deeper connections, and find harmony in even the most diverse environments.

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Hiking with Humanists at Kent Ridge Park & Alexandra Park

8 December 2024 by

We recently embarked on a refreshing morning hike through the lush greenery of Kent Ridge Park and explored the iconic black-and-white bungalows of Alexandra Park. The day began with a gentle climb and panoramic city views, offering a glimpse into Singapore’s wartime past. Along the way, lively conversations flowed—true to the spirit of any Humanist event!

Here’s a lovely note we received from one of our participants:

“Thanks for leading such an enjoyable walk last Saturday, 7th December 2024. I appreciated the warm welcome from all those I walked with and talked to over brunch at the hawker market. It was a really interesting route and for a lover of vernacular architecture, the black-and-white bungalows were a real bonus!”

Strolling through Alexandra Park, we soaked in the unique colonial charm of these historic homes. By the end of the hike, everyone left with a deeper appreciation for Singapore’s green spaces and our architectural heritage—and, of course, plenty of happy memories and new connections.

If you missed out this time, don’t worry—more adventures await! We look forward to seeing you at our next event for more exploration, camaraderie, and the warm humanist spirit.

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