If life were a game, what kind of main character would you be? At our last Secular Assembly of 2025, this question was explored by our guest speaker amid a festive and reflective atmosphere.

In a presentation titled “Embracing Your Protagonism”, guest speaker Melvin Lim, President of HSS, discussed how one might use the lenses of storytelling and games to navigate a complex world.

Starting with an overview of folklore around the world related to winter, Melvin helped situate Christmas traditions within a vibrant tapestry of cultures with origins ranging from Japan to Europe.
Like folklore that can convey important moral and practical knowledge, narrative games, Melvin posited, is one lens we could use to navigate our lives. Some questions raised by his presentation:
- Do you prefer a ‘restricted’ environment (where there is a specific condition to ‘win’, such as in chess) or a ‘free’ one (where the success criterion is self-defined, such as in Minecraft)?
- Are you more ‘autotelic’ (motivated by intrinsic factors such as curiosity) or ‘exotelic’ (motivated by external factors such as prestige)?
- How are you nurturing your talent, and improving your luck (which can be thought of as a combination of opportunity and preparedness)?
Other highlights of the programme:
- Before the main Assembly, a group of attendees enjoyed a guided tour of the Harmony in Diversity gallery, kindly made possible by our gallery partners. Read more about the gallery here.
- Lit by (electronic) candlelight, participants were guided to share reflections on things that they were grateful for over the past year.
- The jolliest fellow of the season dropped by! Santa Claus surprised attendees with presents and led us in a medley of classic Christmas songs.
Join us at the next Secular Assembly, where we’ll continue to build the Humanist community!

























